Co-parenting Boundaries While In A New Relationship

Introduction

The co-parenting is never easy particularly if you are in a different relationship now. Dealing with the kids’ needs, in addition to managing your ex and his/her new partner is very challenging. Although, this may be a hard one to achieve but establishing some form of co-parenting boundaries while in a new relationship might do the trick. Therefore, this article looks at some of the issues that can help maintain order to ensure the transition is smooth.

1. Setting Clear Communication Boundaries

This is definitely true because communication is an essential factor when it comes to good co-parenting. The ability to communicate effectively can help avoid many misconceptions that are likely to cause conflicts. Here’s how to set these boundaries:

1.1. Define Communication Channels:

Select the communication style which works good with the ex-partner. For instance, it maybe email, text or an app. This helps to remove personal feelings or sentiment towards a particular person in your talks. Remember that these recommendations are being made to protect and have the best interest of children in mind.

1.2. Set Response Times:

Recommend response time that is fairly acceptable. This effectively handles expectation and minimises pressure. For instance, agree to reply within 24 hours of the message being received except in a case of an emergency.

1. 3. Keep Conversations Child-Centered:

Avoid discussing any issues that are not related to the children. This is against the unity and well-being of the children and your new partner; therefore, don’t speak of past problems or your new partner.

2. Drawing the Line In Your New Relationship

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